A Heart Touching Break Up !!!

A girl in love asked her boyfriend...

Girl: Tell me... who do you love most in this world..?
Boy: You, of course!
Girl: In your heart, what am I to you?
Boy: The boy thought for a moment and looked intently in her eyes and said , "You are my rib. In the Bible, it was said that God saw that Adam was lonely, during his sleep; God took one of Adam's rib and created Eve.Every man has been searching for his missing rib, only when you find the woman of your life; you'll no longer feel the lingering ache in your heart . . ."

After their wedding, the couple had a sweet and happy life for a while.However,the youthful couple began to drift apart due to the busy schedule of life and the never-ending worries of daily problems...their life became mundane.

All the challenges posed by the harsh realities of life began to gnaw away their dreams and love for each other...The couple began to have more quarrels and each quarrel became make their relation more worst.

One day, after the quarrel, the girl ran out of the house.... At the opposite side of the road, she shouted, "You don't love me...!"

The boy hated her childishness and out of impulse, retorted, "May be, it was a mistake for us to be together..! You were never my missing rib...!"

Suddenly, she turned quiet and stood there for a long while.... He regretted what he said but words spoken are like thrown away water, you can never take it back.

With tears in her eyes, she went home to pack her things and was determined in breaking-up. Before she left the house, "If I'm really not your missing rib, please let me go..... She continued, "It is less painful this way... let us go on our separate ways and search for our own partners..."

Five years went by....

He never remarried but he had tried to find out about her life indirectly...... She had left the country and married a foreigner and divorced...........

He felt anguished that she never waited for him. In the dark and lonely night, he lit his cigarette and felt the lingering ache in his heart.He couldn't bring himself to admit that he was missing her.....

One day, they finally met.... At the airport, a place where there were many reunions and good-byes.... He was going away on a businesstrip.She was standing there alone, with just the security door separating them. She smiled at him gently.

Boy: How are you ?
Girl: I'm fine. How about you... Have you found your missing rib...?
Boy: No.
Girl: I'll be flying to New York in the next flight.
Boy: I'll be back in 2 weeks time. Give me a call when you are back...You know my number.... Nothing has changed.

With a smile, she turned around and waved good-bye..
"Good-bye . . ."

One week later, he heard of her death. She had perished in NewYork. In the event that shocked the world..
Midnight..... Once again, he lit his cigarette..... And like before, he felt the lingering ache in his heart.... He finally knew, she was the missing rib that he had carelessly broken . . .

"Sometimes, people say things out of moments of fury..... Most often , the outcome is disastrous and detrimental.... We vent our frustrations 99% at our loved ones.... And even though we know that we ought to "think twice and act wisely", it's often easier said than done. Things happen each day, many of which are beyond our control. Let us treasure every moment and everyone in our lives. Tomorrow may never come; give and accept what you have today . . . "

Something Meaningful . . .

There was once a guy who is very much in love with his girl. This romantic guy folded 1,000 pieces of paper-cranes as a gift to his girl. Although, at that time he was just a small agent in his company, his future doesn't seemed too bright, they were very happy together. Until one day, his girl told him she was going to Paris and will never come back.

She also told him that she couldn't visualize any future for both of them, so let's go their own ways there and then ...Heartbroken, the guy agreed. But when he regains his confidence, he worked hard day and night, slogging his body and mind just to make something out of him.

Finally with all these hard work and the help of friends, this guy had set up his own company. You never fail until you stop trying.. One rainy day, while this guy was driving; he saw an elderly couple sharing an umbrella the rain walking to some destination.

Even with the umbrella, they were still drenched. It didn't take him long to realize those were his girl's parents. With a heart in getting back at them, he droved slowly beside the couple, wanting them to spot him in his luxury sedan.

He wanted them to know that he wasn't the same anymore; he had his own company, car, comfort etc. He made it! Before the guy can realize, the couple was walking towards a cemetery, and he got out of his car and followed... and he saw his girl, a photograph of her smiling sweetly as ever at him from her tombstone... and he saw his paper cranes beside her.

Find time to realize that there is one person who means so much to you,for you might wake up one morning losing that person who you thought meant nothing to you... Her parents saw him. He asks them why had this happened.They explained, she did not leave for Paris at all. She was ill with cancer.

She had believed that he will make it someday, but she did not want to be his obstacle... therefore she had choose to leave him...

Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have.. She had wanted her parents to put his paper cranes beside her, because, if the day comes when fate brings him to her again he can take some of those back with him...Once you have loved, you will always love. For what's in your mind may escape but what's in your heart will remain forever . . .

The guy just wept... The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them and knowing that you can't have them . . .

NEVER ABANDON AN OLD FRIEND . . .YOU WILL NEVER FIND ONE WHO CAN TAKE HIS/HER PLACE . . .FRIENDSHIP IS LIKE WINE, IT GETS BETTER AS IT GROWS OLDER . . .

They Loved each other a lot . . .

A Girl and a Boy were on a motorcycle, speeding through the night. They loved each other a lot .

Girl : "slow down a little.. I'm scared.."
Boy : "No, it's so fun.."
Girl : "please.. it's so scary.."
Boy : "Then say that you love me.."
Girl : "Fine.. I love you.. can you slow down now?"
Boy : "Give me a big hug.."
The girl gave him a big hug.
Girl : "Now can you slow down?"
Boy : "Can you take off my helmet and put it on..? It's uncomfortable and its bothering me while I drive.."

The next day, there was a story in the newspaper.

" A motorcycle had crashed into a building because its brakes were not working & there were two people on the motorcycle, of which one died, and the other had survived... "

The guy knew that the brakes were not working. But he didn't want to let the Girl to know, because he knew that the girl would have gotten scared. Instead, He was told the last time that she loved him, got a hug from her, put his helmet on her so that she can live, and died himself . . .

Human Relationship - A story to share . . .

Sometimes we spend time asking who is responsible or who to blame, whether in a relationship,
in a job or with the people we know. We miss out some warmth in human relationship to give each other support. Treasure what you have. Just a little story for you . . .


A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the apple of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for work so he asked the wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. The mother, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.

The boy playfully went to the medicine bottle and, fascinated with its color, drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child showed signs of poisoning the mother took him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words.

QUESTIONS:
1. What were the four words ?
2. What is the implication of this story ?

Check with the answers only after you have tried to come up with your own. Please scroll down

Answer....

The husband just said "I Love You Darling” . . .
The husband's totally unexpected reaction is proactive behavior. He is indeed a genius in human relationships.The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband.That is what he gave her. If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. To be happy with a man you must understand him a lot and love him a little. To be happy with a woman you must understand her a lot and love her with all your heart.
"A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step."
Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears & you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.

A Love Story..

There was once a guy who suffered from cancer... a cancer that can't be treated. He was 18 years old and he could die anytime. All his life, he was stuck in his house being taken cared by his mother. He never went outside but he was sick of staying home and wanted to go out for once.

So he asked his mother and she gave him permission. He walked down his block and found a lot of stores. He passed a CD store and looked through the front door for a second as he walked. He stopped and went back to look into the store. He saw a young girl about his age and he knew it was love at first sight. He opened the door and walked in, not looking at anything else but her. He walked closer and closer until he was finally at the front desk where she sat.

She looked up and asked "Can I help you?" She smiled and he thought it was the most beautiful smile he has ever seen before and wanted to kiss her right there.

He said "Uh... Yeah... Umm... I would like to buy a CD." He picked one out and gave her money for it.

"Would you like me to wrap it for you?" she asked, smiling her cute smile again.

He nodded and she went to the back.

She came back with the wrapped CD and gave it to him. He took it and walked out of the store. He went home and from then on, he went to that store everyday and bought a CD, and she wrapped it for him. He took the CD home and put it in his closet. He was still too shy to ask her out and he really wanted to but he couldn't. His mother found out about this and told him to just ask her.

So the next day, he took all his courage and went to the store. He bought a CD like he did everyday and once again she went to the back of the store and came back with it wrapped. He took it and when she wasn't looking, he left his phone number on the desk and ran out...

!!!RRRRRING!!!

The mother picked up the phone and said, "Hello?"

It was the girl!!! She asked for the boy and the mother started to cry and said, "You don't know? He passed away yesterday..."

The line was quiet except for the cries of the boy's mother.

Later in the day. the mother went into the boy's room because she wanted to remember him. She thought she would start by looking at his clothes. So she opened the closet. She was face to face with piles and piles and piles of unopened CDs. She was surprised to find all those CDs and she picked one up and sat down on the bed and she started to open one.

Inside, there was a CD and as she took it out of the wrapper, out fell a piece of paper. The mother picked it up and started to read it.

It said: Hi... I think U R really cute. Do u wanna go out with me? Love, Jacelyn

The mother opened another CD... Again there was a piece of paper. It said: Hi... I think U R really cute. Do u wanna go out with me? Love, Jacelyn

Love is... when you've had a huge fight but then decide to put aside your egos, hold hands and say, "I Love You . . . "